How are you? must be fine
Once again i’m here with you to share my oh sorry our feeelings with everyone.
“Dosti” shayad is shabd ko samjhne ke liye hi hume ek umar chahiye par kya wo bhi bahut hogi ye samjhne ke liye? Dost jo shayad hamare liye to sirf ek aisa naam hai jo hum kisi ko bhi de sakte hain par kisi aur ke liye ek umeed, ek aisa ehsaas jise hum kabhi bhi samjh na payen.Samjhe bhi kyu jab hume uski koi jarurat hi nahi hai aur agar hai bhi to bas us waqt jab kuchh chahiye, arey jiski jarurat hai agar wo hume mil raha hai to bhala uska kya karna jo humse dur jata hi nahi. Par kya sach mein wo humse kabhi dur nahi jayega???? Ek din aisa hoga jab hum to use pukarenge par wo wapis nahi aayega, hum royenge bhi par wo hume nahi puchhega, kya tab hum dosti ko samjh chuke honge...........................????????? Shayad haan ya fir abhi bhi nahi.
Dost shayad jiski priksha hum har waqt lete hain aur wo hamesha usme paas hokar bhi fail hota hai hamare liye. Chahe dhup ho, chahe barsaat, chahe dhund ho ya fir andheri raat par hanara dost koi parwah kare bina hamare paas pahunch hi jayega par kya hamara pyaar .......................???? aayega......But not sure!!!!!!!!! Kyu dost ko hum bas is liye apne paas rakhte hain, kya har baar priksha uski hi honi chahiye kabhi hum khud uski jagah nahi khade ho sakte?
Dost jise hum par khud se jyada vishwaas hai par hume us par nahi. Kya ye kami usme hai? Nahi ye kami to hamare andar hai jise jante huye bhi hum dur nahi kar sakte kyu ki jis insaan se hum pyaar karte hain, hamara vishwaa/s to wo hai. Pyaar, pyaar pyaar ek ratt jo sab kuchh bhula deti hai, jise humne apne mann mein basa rakha hai, wo hi sab kuchh hai. Kya dost ka pyaar pyaar nahi ?
Pyaar jise hum apna har ek pal de sakte hain, jiske saath har sham bita sakte hain, jiske bina zindagi hi adhuri si hai. Kya dost ko wo pal nahi de sakte, kya uske bina hum adhure nahi hain?
Dost jise hamari har baat achhi lagti hai, jise hamari har galati bhi apni si lagati hai, har daant ek mithi jhapi si lagti hai,jo hamari ek muskurahat mein bhi apni khushi dhundh leta hai, hamari narazgi bhi hass ke seh leta hai, hamara har dukh apna samjhta hai, aakhir kyu karta hai wo aisa......???????
Kya chahta wo humse? Kyu hai wo hamare itne kareeb? Kya rehta hai har pal hamare saath? Kyu sochta hai sirf hamari hi khushi, Kya use khushi ka koi haq nahi hai?
Kya humne kabhi socha hai ke bhagwan ne ye dosti ka rishta hi kyu banaya? Kya jarurat thi iski? Sab khush to hain. Kisi ko dost ki jarurat hi kya hai?................. Kyuki Shayad ye hi wo rishta hai jo hume har rishta nibhana sikhata hai. Shayad isi rishte main do insaan ek dusre ko sikhate hain ke kisi ko pyaar kaise diya jata hai. Shayad yahi wo rishta hai jo kisi se bhi banaya jata hai ...................aur haan shayad yahi to wo rishta hai jise aasani se toda ja sakta hai, shayad isj rishte ko hum aasani se bhula sakte hain, shayad yahi rishta hai jo kisi ko kareeb aur kisi ko dur le jata hai. Par kya sach mein ye kisi ko dur le jata hai...........?.............. Nahi dosto sirf ye hi to wo rishta hai jo do ajnabi logo ko itna kareeb le aata hai jise hum pyaar kehte hain, Agar ye rishta hi pyaar ki neev hai to kahi isi wajah se to nahi hum isse dur bhagte, kya isi wajah se hi to nahi hum apne dost ko bhulna chahte? Par kya ye thik hoga...............................?Kya kisi dost ke pyaar ko thukrana sahi hai ...?????
Ek dost jo sacha hai, jiske mann aap har pal ek vishwaas bankar rehte hain bhala uske pyaar ko kyu thukrana? Jo insaan hamesha aapki hi khushi chahta hai bhala usse dur kyu jana? Jiske mann mein koi chhal nahi use khud se kyu dur karna? Jo bina swarth ke har pal aapke saath ke liye tarasta hai use kyu chhodna? Jiski zindagi ek dost se shuru hoti hai aur us rishte ko samjhne ke baad wo apne har rishte ko nibha raha hai, aakhir wo insaan galat kaise ho sakta hai? ...........Galat to shayad hum hain jo use jaan nahi paate kyuki hum kisi se pyaar karte hain aur hamari zindagi usi se shuru hoti hai aur usi pe khatam...........................bhala hum ek dost ke pyaar ko kyu samjhenge.?
Jab kabhi bhi hum us insaan se baat kar rahe hote hain jise hum pyaar karte hain aur agar hamare dost ka phone aa jaye to hum use ignore kar dete hain, kyuki wo hamre liye jaruri nahi hai. Aur agar kabhi dost se baat kar rahe ho aur uska phone aa jaye to dost ko bina kuchh kahe hi phone disconnect kar dete hain, Kyu? Kya dost ki baat jaruri nahi ho sakti? Kya us waqt usko hamari jarurat nahi ho sakti ?Kya uski baat hamare liye koi mayane nahi rakhti? Kyu pal pal hum use ye ehsaas dilate hain ke meri zindagi mein teri jagah kuchh nahi hai, tu apni jagah bnane ki koshish mat kar.
Mujhe nahi malum ke ye ehsaas kab pura hoga par mujhe uski jarurat aaj bhi hai jiske bina shayad ye hamesha hi adhura rahega.
Dosto its 2.00 a.m., take care, i promise i'll be back soon
writtten by Sameer
